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Fantasy of Excellence

Let's say that someone has accomplished a great deal. Then people will usually think this way.
It's a result of a superhuman effort to play with someone else's playing, with a passionate mentality.
But when you know it, this person has been different from the starting point. 
This man did not work with great plans and intentions. It was just that it hit him and He was able to do it without much effort. The result was better than the efforts that were made, so he was more motivated. There could be a virtuous cycle in his work. So he kept going and it became an excellent achievement.
The process of excellent accomplishment I saw around me was usually this.

People often have fantasies about excellent achievement. They try to find its cause from personal unique qualities. They think the person who accomplished the excellent accomplishment is something. Here lies the premise that everyone starts at the same point as the track.
But life is different from track and field. The athletics have the same starting point and the starting point is determined according to the signals sent by the referee, but life is not. Everyone's starting point in life is different. And the distance difference is often larger than you think.
If so, it is important to know what kind of item I can have an advantageous starting point. What is it? Is it 100m? Is it a 400m relay?
So it is important to know about yourself. You need to know about yourself. What do you do well? What are you capable of doing with the greatest passion and energy?
You must take this seriously and deeply before you put your passion on something. A person who is not excellent at speed will not be able to put a medal on his neck with a short distance race. It is ridiculous for a person with low endurance to stick to long distance. But in reality, there are too many people who are not aware of themselves and have made important choices in life, especially the choices of the profession.
They say with exuberant eyes toward those who have accomplished outstanding achievements like this. 
"They have exceptional qualities"
Could it be self-rationalization of those who made important decisions in life without knowing about themselves? They will not feel comfortable unless they do so.
It is not too late now. Take a deep look at your inner. Think and think until you are clear who you are.
Envying others' accomplishments can not be of any help to your life. Turn your gaze to yourself. The way to make your life better is in you.

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